The bitter truth is that we've all gone through the pain of letting go of unrequited love, failed relationships, forgetting people who once meant the world to us. We've all had this struggle with ourselves. And we all know what it's like when you don't get some kind of ending, an ending, a point.
Life will always break our heart
It's really hard. I know.
I'm the kind of person who believes in love and people. If I fall in love, I give my whole heart and make every effort in the relationship.
But it hasn't always been easy. Because even though I'm someone who believes in love, I've still experienced a lot of disappointment. Don't ask me how I kept my faith in spite of it.
But the fact remains that I've often been left without an explanation or goodbye. For a very long time I felt helpless and pathetic. But then I realized that my inner peace has nothing to do with my leaving me. It depends on me and my courage to accept the fact that no one will come to me, won't say "I'm sorry" and wave goodbye.
The truth is that life will always break our heart. So it's important to find a way to deal with that. Like? Just accepting the inevitable, the sad, letting go of our attachment to those who have hurt us, and moving on, no matter what.
No, you don't have to keep your feelings to yourself and pretend that you're okay. You need time to get over the loss of a loved one. Cry, scream, don't get out of bed for days, but realize that at some point you have to close that door. For our own sake.
Hate it, miss it, surrender to those feelings. Let those emotions run through your whole body, no matter how much it hurts. But then go back to reality, say goodbye, close that door, let go of the memories and just move on.
In the end, the main and only person you really have to think about is yourself. You need yourself. You have to love yourself. Everything else is just a bonus.