Attention, ladies, they're trying to trap you d! Men are players. They play games all the time. In childhood it is cars and toy soldiers, but in adolescence they are joined by computer and sports games. Over the years, only the scale changes, and the cars become expensive cars, the soldiers become military action. The desire to be the first, to defeat, conquer, achieve - this is what is an integral part of male nature.
But there is another game, the game with the opposite sex.
Yes, yes, my dear women, men are always, and I emphasize this word, always play with us. Earlier I thought that relationships were spontaneous and unpredictable, but it turns out that any gesture, word, hint, gift - all of this can be not accidental, but even the opposite, pre-planned!.
Where to put the rubbish you can't take out of the house?
If you dig deeper, you can find out that they (men) even have a whole science about it. But we're not going to dig, that's not the point. I just wanted to believe in sincerity of feelings, in spontaneity of impulses and crystal purity of intentions.
One of my acquaintances, let's leave his name out of it, told me in detail about their methods of conquering the heart of a woman.
Therefore I want to share this knowledge with you in order to protect you from unnecessary delusions and explain some of the deeds of our dear and adored by the stronger sex.
The tactic is simple - to interest the girl as much as possible in the beginning, and as little as possible to give her later, so that eventually she realized that he is all that she needs in this life...
Let me explain: you are walking along the street and suddenly, as a snow on your beautiful head, some pleasant young (or not very, the age is not important here) person with some interesting question (a sentence, a comment, etc.) comes to you.). Unexpected for you - and he has long since memorized the necessary phrase, and was only looking for a candidate more sympathetic, to apply it.
And then ... Then everything as always happens - the date, chocolates, dinner... It seems to you that everything goes as it should, but suddenly your friend (excuse the pun) disappears. Cancels appointments, does not return calls, writes dry, one-word messages..
A familiar situation? If so, you've probably fallen into his trap. This method has its name (something like "closer or farther away") and consists in the fact that having become interesting for you, the man deprives you of his attention. You suffer, you do not understand what happened, you are looking for the reason for his strange behavior.
Well, how come, because you were absolutely sure that the guy is in love with you up to his ears, and his life without you does not think. And in fact, it turns out, life without him no longer can not imagine you ... He is not and formed a strange void which does not want to be filled. Time passes and it becomes clear - it's boring and sad without him, and his attention is not enough! It is like the withdrawal of a drug addict (the comparison, of course, is harsh, but what can we do - the essence is such), who has been left without the next portion of dope, it breaks..
And now get ready for the climax!
He shows up again, as if nothing had happened, with his jokes, candy, and other positive things! Yay! The sun shines again, your eyes light up and you throw yourself on his neck, getting another dose of endorphin!!! Congratulations! Now you are firmly hooked into his hook and will not get away from him (you remember very well how lonely and sad it was without him)!
The play is played, the curtain is drawn, the applause!
To be a little unavailable for you all the time, not quite "your" - that is his goal.
The knowledge that your sweetheart can disappear at any moment keeps you alert and strengthens your attachment to him.
Why am I saying all this?? Lovely ladies, men are playing with us, it's a fact! But how nice to know that fact and let them keep playing that game!